When to End a Friendship (Part 3)

At the start of August I wrote this post about a friend I was contemplating cutting out of my life because our relationship had become one-sided. And then after we finally met up, I wrote this post about how I chose not to say anything to her about how I felt but was wondering if that was the right choice.

After a couple of weeks of internal debate and wondering what I should do, I decided to send her an email today.

While I would love to have a conversation in person, I just don’t see that happening. I want to have this conversation when I’m not just full of hurt and anger and if I wait until the next time I see her, odds are good I’ll just be full of hurt and anger again; because patterns repeat. And even though I’m not mad right now, nothing actually got solved. And if I don’t say anything, it will continue to not get solved. And while I know this is by no means the best solution, this is the one I’m going with. I guess we’ll see how it goes…

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